I don’t want this to become a religious debate, because that’s where this always leads, I just want some opinions. When a person purposely carries others burdens to the point of it wearing them down. Basically putting everyone ahead of them, is it wrong? It’s in no way to avoid their own problems, it actually makes then happy and fulfilled to see others joyful and at ease. They don’t feel they deserve less than others in anyway. They also do not let people take advantage. People continually tell them they are selfless and good, but they end up overextended and worn down all the time. Should trey try to lessen their caring for others? How can they without it seeming they are becoming a lesser person? After working so hard to overcome being selfish and hurtful, it’s like a step back. Should they keep pushing to put others first, if not isn’t that selfish and greedy? Compulsive helping is a disorder, it just hard condone treating it in my eyes.
