Seizing the day

Have you guys ever found it hard to seize the day ?

I keep thinking I have time and suddenly, time has ran out and I panick.

For example, I have a crush on this guy with whom I’ve been living for a year and I keep thinking I have time to make my move and I keep hesitating and I keep doing nothing. I don’t how to make a move, but isn’t that just an excuse because I’m actually scared?

Other example: I’ve been wanting to share a story with him for a little more than a week. It’s something quite personnal but also quite important. I keep waiting for the right moment and I keep missing it.

Whay is it so hard ?

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Junels

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Don't wait for the right moment, grab the moment. If you want to share a story with him that's important to you, sit down with him. Tell him you have something important to say. Have that talk when you feel ready for it.

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Rain

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Do something about it. If it means a lot to you, just jump for it and make the move. I'm sure he'll feel the same way if y'all have been living together for a year now. Tell him you have something to tell him and talk with him about everything and just make it known as Silent Rain said that it's important. Seize the day, or the day seizes you. Time is only valuable and it doesn't really slip away, it just gets stored in memory to go back to them when you want. Make the best of the day and moment you are living now. It's the most precious one, because it'll only happen once.

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BrokenShadow

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It seems so easy when I think about it and then, when I'm about to do it, my heart starts racing and I hesitate for so long that then, the right moment is gone and we're doing somthing else.You guys are helping though, I realise that I have to stop being ridiculous and just go for it, dammit ! ;)

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Junels

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Good for you!!!! We are so proud of you for taking the steps to go for it!! :D <3

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BrokenShadow

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Sometimes, you just gotta go for it.

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SomedaysDreamer

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