Screw Love.

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I have been helping all of my friends get together with their crushes and I can do just about anything relationship wise… For everyone else. But no matter how hard I try the one person I like/love is the one that always needs my help with girls… How do I get him to know that I like/love him… He hugs me and I guess flirts and has even kissed me on the cheek. He always sits at my table, whether it’s lunch or class…. but he will go off and ask me to help set him up with my best friend or this girl or that one, and I do because I really like/love him…. I feel used… Is that what he is doing? What should I do?

Category: Tags: asked June 26, 2014

6 Answers

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I see your dilemma. My advice would be to simply tell him, it's the only way. Sit him down and tell him that you like him.
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Risk it...just confess to him and be blunt. Because really you might regret it not telling him how you feel...worse scenario? He rejects you and so what, you could say I at least tried, correct?-Take care lass x
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Yep..no other way out but to tell him upfront. If even after knowing that you like him, he still asks you to help him with setting up with other girls...thats just sad. All the best :)
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You should be blunt and tell him exactly how you feel about him. It's way better than living with the 'What if'. Confessing your feelings is never easy, but you would have at least told him and don't have to live with the regret of not telling him.
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I think that you should straight out tell him how you honestly feel about him. From the looks of it, if he is going to you to set him up with other girls, it kind of seems like he has a lot and trust and faith in your opinion, I mean he could easily go to his guy friends, right? I think theres already some type of connection there, partly because my friend has went through the same type of situation. You need to confront him with your feelings, ask how you guys should proceed with them (if he feels the same way), and if he doesn't, there are plenty other fish in the sea who would treat you exactly the way you need to be treated. :) If it doesn't work out to your liking either, kindly tell him that you are not available to help him find other girls, because i'm sure that takes a lot of energy out of you!
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coming from personal experience, i would just tell him. I did 14 years ago and we have been married 8 years now. i felt the same way for 4 years and he even had a girlfriend during that time and lots of friends that were girls. I was intimidated by how he acted and felt like he only wanted to be my friend. I was wrong. i would never have known if i didn't tell him!