Questions for High School girls…(Basicly advice for me)

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Ok so there is this girl I like and everyone thinks she likes me back and I think so to. One of her friends asked her if she liked me and she said no, she asked again “mhh, no”, asked again “Mhhh *Starts to smile uncontrollably*” Her friends says she positively says she likes me so…

I plan to ask her friday night at the football game or Halloween night.(She asked me to go trick or treating in her neighborhood :) )

So I just want some people to answer these:

1. If a boy was looking at your eyes while you and him were talking would you like that? Oe would it feel awkward?
2. If a boy(That you are not dating) gave you a homemade necklace would you take it as a gift or would it feel weird.
3. Whats your approach on boys who have a crush on you? Do you show interest back if you like the boy? If so how do you show it?
4. What annoys you most about boys(That you like or are dating)?
5. What do you do if a boy catches you staring at him? What do you do if you catch a boy staring at you?
6. What do you look for in a boy?
7. Does personality or looks matter more to you?
8. Tough or Shy boys?
9. Any experience or how you got into your current relationship?
10. Any extra advice?
11. Make up your own questions if you want and answer them.

Category: Tags: asked October 23, 2013

3 Answers

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1. I personally love eye contact 2. It would probably depend on the necklace. I'd probably think it was pretty cool though 3. If a boy has a crush on me I say really awkward things because I get really flustered. I also try to say things that i think, he'd think were cool. Therefore if the girl is like me and she says something insanely stupid to you, she likes you! 4. I get pretty annoyed when I don't feel important to him. Also when he is constantly looking at other girls pictures on Facebook... 5. If a boy catches me staring at him I usually look away and blush, if I see a guy looking at me I usually look away and blush but it makes me feel special 6. I just look for someone who honestly likes me, and someone who isn't into a lot of girls. I have a self-confidence issue, so I really like guys who don't flirt with other girls. Just someone who makes me feel special. 7. PERSONALITY is definitely way more important. If you ever meet a girl who is more interested in looks do yourself a favour and don't subject yourself to that. 8. Shy boys, tough guys are overrated and usually aren't that trustworthy 9. My boyfriend and I were looking after our drama teachers 5 year old daughter after school one day. There was a show going on and we had volunteered to hand out programs. It was an hour before the show and we were walking, all three of us were holding hands and the little girl was in the middle, she suddenly stopped, and put me and my (now boyfriend's) hands together and then she grabbed onto my other hand and kept walking. We kissed at the end of the show and have been dating ever since. I'm totally not making this up by the way. We had sort of been flirting before hand but nothing major. We just both had a crush on each other and would have probably ended up together if that hadn't of happened but I'm not lying about the hand thing!! Totally happened! It was a movie moment. 10. Be yourself! When we started dating I was trying to pretend to be this tough girl who partied and stuff because i thought that's what he wanted. Turns out he hates people who party! So really just be yourself. And if you end up dating for a while, don't stop telling her she's pretty and don't stop telling her you love her. We've been dating for almost 2 years and he never tells me that stuff anymore and it really hurts. Tell the truth too. I feel like he likes another girl or he might not be attracted to me or something but he wont say, which isn't very good for our relationship. I rather hear the truth then be lied to. Also make sure she's treating you right! And ask her out haha. That'd be a good start. Good luck!
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1. Looking into a person's eyes creates a personal connection. That's good. However, don't look into her eyes too long...it could become awkward.
2. If a random person gave me any sort of gift, I might be a little freaked out. However, it does appear that the two of you are good friends. I personally would love a homemade necklace from a close friend, male or female. It is truly a thoughtful gift-you put time and effort and energy into making it. It's special!
3. I don't like to talk about my crushes even with my friends. Unless it's a celebrity. If a boy has a crush on me, I usually cannot tell. BUT, if I can tell, I usually have no idea what to do. I get embarrassed a lot when talking to someone I like. I become very self-conscious.
4. Annoying things....Showing off too much. That's a big one. I was doing my very best to play Masquerade on the piano, which I taught to myself, and a boy comes over and starts to play Phantom of the Opera really well. I sulked.
5. If a boy I like is staring at me and I look up and see him, I redden then look away.
6. Similar interests. Likes to cuddle. Makes me laugh. Not afraid to let me show him how to do something/teach him something or something like that. Willing to watch sappy movies with me.
7. If I see an unattractive guy and an attractive guy walking down the street, I am probably going to go for the attractive one. However, if I knew both a nice unattractive guy and a mean attractive guy, I would go for the nice one.
8. That is not a good question.
9. I have plenty of experience.
10. Do not talk about past or future relationships. Do not push the matter of sex. Make her feel special. Do stuff together that's not a date: i.e. studying. At least once sacrifice a night with the guys or whatever for her; makes her feel like she matters. Sometimes girls need girl time. And most importantly!!!! All girls are different so do not take this answer totally to heart.
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1. I appreciate eye contact, but remember to blink and look away every few seconds. Otherwise it's just awkward and tense. 2. The necklace sounds wonderful to me. I would really appreciate that from a guy, provided that you guys know each other well enough. 3. I don't seem to develop crushes. Odd one out. The guy really has to work for my attention. 4. Probably when they don't want to know the real you and are bad at following up with promises. 5. I smile and look away. No biggie. 6. Honesty, intelligence, kindness, selflessness, and maturity. 7. Personality matters more than looks, but looks certainly matter as well. 8. It depends on the guy, but generally speaking, I prefer tough boys. Just don't change yourself for this girl; that never leads to good. 9. I'm in my fifth relationship in a span of about a decade. Meet ups ranged from clubbing to high school to MySpace. 10. Think about her. Don't think in terms of "how can I make her happy enough so that she'll date me?" Think, "How can I make her happy?" It's okay to think about what's in it for you sometimes, but remember to just care about her, independent of your own needs. There aren't enough guys like that out there.