I’m afraid of speaking out about possibly being gender fluid(?) to my friends and family, and well, to anybody at all since I’ve been a cisgender girl for 16 years. Like, it’s not like I’m uncomfortable in my body- but like, the thought of being referred to as a boy or using he/him pronouns and such don’t feel… wrong. And I like my name. It’s hard to explain but I like being a girl but I also feel like I’d like being boy. Like biologically I am a girl but… even though I’d feel/like to be a boy I wouldn’t want to change anything (although my boobies are super annoying sometimes and I just anxious just feeling them on my body. Sometimes. Like, I don’t feel dysphoric on a regular basis, I just feel sort of overwhelmed over my boobs but not my genitalia.) Is this valid…? So many trans + genderqueer people go through so much more, and I’d feel like I’d just be taking the title “genderfluid/queer” for fun or experimenting. I feel like there are certain qualifications for some reason. I’ve been thinking about this for a long time but I feel like I need to really think deeper a little bit more before I admit to myself and my friends/family about possibly being… well, not cisgender.