Prom Advice. What do i do?

Hi So I plan to ask a sophomore girl out (Im a junior) to this years prom. Now my question is, in my scenario i am going to explain shortly, How do i go about “taking her out to prom” and doing at the actual prom.

So the my main group of friends “may” go to prom (4 for sure, 3 more still deciding) and we plan on getting a limo for 14 (wanted a big limo so if dates may go with us) Now Since this sophomore girl doesn’t have any Junior friends she can hang out, and since my fellow friends are going to ask out girls within their grade and will be joining their dates group of friends, what do i do with my date necessarily? Will it just be me and her the whole entire dance? Some of my friends may be staging so do i just have her join me and my group of friends? (Also my social group isn’t very intact)

So necessarily throughout the duration of the dance what do i do with my dance i guess you could say may question is. Is being with just my date the duration of the dance actually worth going to the dance in the first place?

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Hello Bilo,My suggestion is to first go ahead and ask her to prom! I hope it's fair for me to assume that you know this girl somewhat well and if not this is an opportunity to get to meet her. I wouldn't recommend going with someone you don't think you will enjoy the night with.Feel free to ask her how she feels about the situation. If she seems hesitant, I would most definitely introduce her to your friends. Let them get to know each other, so that way she feels more comfortable. Do your best to keep her included in the conversation and maybe clue her in on an inside joke or two.Also if she recognizes anyone at prom, ask her to introduce you to them. That way she can be around people she knows and you can make some new friends.My experiences at prom have been that you mainly stick with your date (if you bring one), but that doesn't mean you can't hangout with your friends. Feel free to take a break and talk with your friends, also you can dance near them. I wouldn't recommend leaving your date though. If you don't think you can handle being around this woman the whole night (and don't feel guilty if that's how you feel) then you shouldn't ask her.As far as whether you should go or not, I would definitely recommend going. If not your Junior year, go your senior year. It's a big part of the high school experience and even if you go alone you won't regret it.Ultimately, prom is about going out with your friends, getting dressed up and enjoying yourself. Don't be nervous. Prom shouldn't be stressful. Best of luck and I hope this is somewhat helpful!

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