At the end of the day it is your life and your body. If there is something you would like to do then do it if not don't let anybody force you to do it. Okay, maybe plastic surgery can make you look presentable and gorgeous but it will permanently change things. This is not hair or nails that you are risking, something that will grow with time. It is irreversible. If you do not want to get the surgery done, just say NO. Personally speaking, i am extremely happy with the way i am. More so since i have lived with myself for this long, i would not like to change anything about myself through surgery. I think being happy in your own skin is very important. Since it shall be your own decision, make a wise one. I am sure deep inside you know what you want, maybe you are just afraid to talk about it. Do what shall make you happy, not something that will make others happy. It is your life and you will have to live it; just try not to regret few decisions later on in your life. Good luck :)