Over confidence (ex) bf that misunderstand everything

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So, recently I broke up with my bf, thankfully. And now, I don’t know what to do to make him understand that I didn’t feel the same way with him. We’ve broken up, but he’s still under (his own) impression that I just need some break and I still love him. To be frank, I never even like him romantically, I was really overjoyed at the thought of someone loving me when I accept to be his gf. So, I think he’s misunderstood me.

He was under (his own) impression that I’m mad at him and he thinks, when a girl’s mad, everything becomes reverse pshycology. But, I’ve been thinking about breaking up with him for a long long while and I’m not mad or something.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

Category: asked February 18, 2015

4 Answers

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Make clear to him that this break up is permanent. Tell him you don't feel that way about him anymore. There's no need to say you never felt that way, because that would only cause extra unneeded hurt for him, because he does love you. Keep your foot down. It can also be better to not have contact with him anymore at all, so both of you can move on properly.
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I think you need a proper closure. Say what you really feel to him and never make him fall to you again.
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I think he wants some closure, maybe you need to tell him that you two are not getting back together and then he can focus on something else
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Make sure he knows your serious and that its over. Do you see him often? Dont respond to ANY of his texts or phone calls or emails or chats...He will get the picture soon enough. But make sure you stay confident and firm in your decision. DO NOT RESPOND block him