Have you ever been so into someone for the longest time, and then out of no where, you just completely lose all interest?
Okay, so I’m a senior in high school. Me and this guy, Nick, have been having a little side-thing for a while, like friends with benefits. And I was fine with just that. But after a while, I caught some feelings and all I could think about was us being together on a more serious sense. I got jealous whenever he talked to other girls ( I rarely get jealous), and I just really liked him.
Well, lately, He started talking about possibly dating, and has been treating me as If we already are together. And all of a sudden, now that I pretty much have everything that I’ve been wanting- I’m not interested.
How can I be totally head-over-heels for him one minute, and then just lose feelings for him entirely? Like, I don’t look forward to talking to him ever anymore, I get annoyed when he wants to hangout, don’t know what happened… I feel like he’s obsessed with me or something.
The point is, I don’t know what I should say to him. I wish we would have just kept things simple, no strings attached. Help?