Hi i am male 25 and have some really bad issues that I feel will be the reason me and my girlfriend split up. Basically I have been in love with my friend since I was 15 but even though I asked her out many times when we was young she always rejected me. I got with another girl for 5 years that basically abused me and literally tore my confidence to shreds. We broke up last year and I finally got with my friend. The issue for me is Im that messed up that I’m ruining this relationship, for example shes slept with about 7 guys in 10 years which is perfectly normal nowadays but everytime I think about it I feel like I’m nothing compared to them both in and out of the bedroom, it consistently plays on my mind and I feel like I should just leave as she can do better than me and probably has, even though she always says she loves me and doesnt want anyone else, i just can’t shake the feeling like I’m no good for her.
