I have been married for 7 years and my husband has been cheating on me for the whole 7 years. He told another woman that I was an investment to him (I am 10 years younger) and he cheated during pregnancy and while I was recovering from my c-sections. I have proof that he has cheated and I have forgave and forgave and we did everything possible to work it out in the past. Now that I’ve found out yet again that he hasn’t changed, I’m ready to pack up and leave. I don’t know what the first step would be and what I need to do. Help!!
That's awful, I'm so sorry! Well tell him you want a divorce (if you do), and go ahead and get up and leave. Maybe stay with a friend or family member to have some time with yourself (and child/ren) alone. He doesn't deserve you, let him know.
Im really sorry you are in that situation. you deserve better, and your child deserves better. I agree with Hannah that you should leave him. if you can stay with someone while you file for divorce you would probably feel a lot better. there are fantastic people in this world, and you deserve someone as fantastic as you are.
I think you might want to take your kid and yourself and stay with someone you trust, contact a lawyer, and then meet your husband in a neutral location to talk about divorce. you dont want your child to see you two discussing such things. and you want to make sure you feel empowered.
you are a strong amazing woman, and he does not deserve to be in your presence a moment longer.