My husband has already told me he is waiting 9 years to leave me. That would be when my daughter is 18. I have tried everything to make the relationship work, even started seeing a therapist but the therapist told me it sounds like my husband needs to come in, which might be pointless because I believe my husband is done with our relationship or lack there of. My main problem is that he belittles me and tells me things such as I am disorganized, which I am not perfect but I am not a total slob. Most people would say I am balanced, I am not a complete neat freak but I am not a slob. I clean dishes, make beds, dust, mop, laundry, etc. work part time, go to school part time. Any chance he can get, is a criticism or insult. Today’s really hit me hard with my middle son going away to sleep away camp tomorrow for the first time…Husband told me he hopes he never marries anyone like me and I replied I am not a bad mother…what does that mean? I have been crying all day about this very hurtful thing the father of my kids said to me today. I guess I do not know how to react to him anymore?