need help getting through cheating

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my fiance and i have been together for 8 years. we were rocky for quite a few. he told me he wasn’t happy and took a trip back home. while there he had sex with a random girl. when he returned, we worked hard on our relationship and he is happy again with me. he opened up and told me what happened….and now i don’t know what to do.

Category: asked May 13, 2013

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"a random girl" Sounds like it was nothing really, a fling while you weren't together. That he's working hard now and had the guts to tell you, and the fact he trusted you enough to tell you, you have to give him that at least.
Just remember: Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
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It's time to leave.
What is going to happen the next time things get rough? You've been together eight years and he threw away all the communication and trust in your relationship because he was unhappy. That's not acceptable of an adult.