My sister

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My little sister is very selfish, immature for her age(15) she acts like a five year old when she doesn’t get her way. she always doubts herself, she likes to finish everything halfway. she hates everything i like. she’s a real drama queen, she’s always on the computer and is very snippy when someone interrupts her internet time. when she gets caught doing something wrong she decides to act out and throw a temper tantrum, the tantrums are a smoke screen to cover up what she is doing wrong. Sarcastic, always brings the negative side to the things i like. She loves to lie, she loves drama(she won’t admit it), she picks fights with me. She bullies me. (i know thats weird considering i’m the older sister.)she annoys me by messing with my stuff. She doesn’t listen to a word i say, when i try to help her she pushes me away. I try to spend time with her but she would rather be on her own. she says she wants to spend time with me but she only comes into my room for the cat. She’s manipulative, She keeps this nice, friendly mask on at school and everyone there thinks she’s really nice, but i know she isn’t like that. Everytime i tell her something confidential, she remembers it and uses it against me for when we have another argument. She isn’t grateful for what she has. She isn’t even grateful for the life she is given. Our mother got in a car crash with my older brother and her. At the time, our mother was pregnant with my littler sister, when our mother had internal bleeding and the doctors said either we abort the baby and you live or you have the child and you die. Our mother chose our little sister, our mother chose my little sister’s life over hers. The other day, she tried to end it by slitting her wrist with scissors. i’m grateful that our mom talked some sense into her. (I knew she wasn’t serious because the way she was holding them wasn’t right.) We fight every single day and i’m tired of it, each fight brings me down lower and lower into depression. Its only my junior year in highschool and i’m seriously thinking about studying really hard, skipping a grade and just getting out of the house. i don’t want to be there anymore. To be honest i would rather be at school then be at home. i never look forward coming home. I can’t even be in the same room with out her presence irritating me. she terrorizes our fsmily by throwing tantrums. our mom said that the next time she did that she would be taken to a mental institute. I really don’t know what to do with her, i’m seriously at my limit. i have to spend two more years with her , i don’t know, i might be overeacting , but how do i deal with her?

Category: asked June 12, 2013

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Do you have any friends or a place you like to go? You know, by yourself? Spend time away from all that nonsense and clear your head. Learn to be passive with this because she'll eventually have to learn, if she starts a fight, you know what? Ignore the heck out of it. Even if it annoys the living crap out of you. Ignore, all the attention being brought to her is just making it worse. She wants to go in your room for the cat? Cool. Leave the cat right out the door so she doesn't have to see you. You are older and therefore it is important you build great patience so you can ignore these silly little games. Try going out more, try reading something in the comfort of your own room and let the days pass by. Hope this helps