MY SISTER IS SO…. IS SO…URGH!!

ok my sister kayla she my twin we don’t look alike we both 11 but I act older and I look older but anyway she so mean she called me nosy, mean, and stubborn and MORE! I hate her so much when I around her my inside burn even when she happy and nice to me I don’t know I always feel like that and plus she use my stuff without asking now I do the same thing but I give it back in good way and not broken! or wet! and I don’t keep using it because like always she used my stuff and she didn’t gave it back I had to find it myself and it was wet because she make scrub and put on make up and I say why do u need make up we 11!!!! and she say well I like to look nice unless u or who care and I be like well mom care and then she just say nothing it kill me because she a liar and a theft and im a Christian and I be some time nice to her and when I nice to her she still act mean to me and I bet if I had a dog I bet she take it and bring the dog back dead! and I can’t tell her on my mom because im older and she my sister and blah blah blah! all I wanted to do is vent and ask two or three question do she sound mean and what should I do and am I over reacting. thanks u all for answering

Category: Family Tags: sister problem asked June 25, 2013

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kori

3 Answers

I'd try and get a second person involved, some one who would be less biased to act as kind of a ref and talk about it. The best thing you could do is write down what she's doing and how it makes you feel and what you'd lime to have happen. I'm sure you'd like to have a close happy relationship with her and if you can let her know how she is affecting you with out getting upset, emotional and angry. Let her tell you how she sees it and what she thinks you both should do. Make a list of guidelines and boundaries together respecting Eachothers personal space and property. Even if you share a room this can work. As some one who grew up with 4 sister I know the importance of listening and respect. Hope this helps and if you have any more Q's let me know ~Jen

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ok first off we don't share a room and we don't respect each other and if I try to talk to her about that she say that I being mean or she don't feel like talking or she had "mixed emotion" about it and maybe I do push the boundaries and if we write a list of thing we won't listen to it and I want her to be a little bit in trouble but when she do something bad or mean to me its like karma because after she does something mean or bad to me something bad or mean happen to her and it weird because I don't know its karma or just an accident. but thanks for answering

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kori

well I ask my sister to do it and guess who didn't want to do it urgh she want me to scream at her so bad I wish I could but then she would cry in her room and I be sad and feel like .... she such a ..... but I just gotta cool down so I wrote in this large notepad and write down how I feel so I just hope my mom or no body see it. some time I feel worthless and don't say well don't kill yourself trust me I can't kill myself because its hard taking away my own life so don't feel worried I be ok I just need people to listen and need boxing lesson so I can hit a pushing bag

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