My partner and I have been together for eleven months, and things are getting difficult. I feel like I have outgrown him. It’s like, having a favorite pair of jeans that no longer fit, you still want to keep them, but it’s difficult to fit into them anymore. I love him, I know for a fact that I love him, but I am not in love with him. There is no spark in our relationship and I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I should try and salvage it or if I should just try to move on. It’s just really hard because I love him so much and I want him in my life so badly, but I’m afraid that if I break things off then he won’t want to stay in my life.
I feel like crap because I’m unhappy and he’s perfectly content in our relationship. He is just too immature to understand that my needs are not being met anymore and our relationship has hit a stand still and I am not happy anymore.
I just really could use a bit of advice.