Okay so no matter what I do I always come off as disrespectful to her. Like today, I went somewhere with my sister. She knew about it. She had asked me this morning if I was going with her to her(mom’s)doctors appointment or my sister’s appointment. I said my sisters appointment. So after my sisters appointment we went to one of her friends house for like 3 hours. I didn’t know we were going there.But anyways, i went home and saw my mom was mad. “Shes like so i guess you’re not going with me to my appointment “. But i thought she already went? Why would she make me choose between her or my sister’s appointment if she didn’t go already? But apparently she was just now going so i guess she wanted me to go to her appointment after i went to my sister’s appointment. She could’ve said that. This is just confusing…whats the point of making me choose if you expect me to go to yours regardless ..im just confused. And then just now, she told me to go check on my cat (he’s getting neutered 2morrow and he can’t eat after a certain time). I checked on him and came back up. She got mad at me because i didn’t tell her how he was doing. I didn’t know i was expected to tell her how he was doing. Its like telling me to wash the dishes. Its a regular responsibility of mine, should i say what specific cups i washed? No. I just dont understand my mom. Anyways she just told me that shes tired of me direspecting her. Yeah. After these 2 incidents, im suddenly disrespectful. Note that i just tried explaining myself to her. No smart comments. She didnt believe me and i just took it. I dont know what i did wrong and its tearing me up inside.
