My husband told me that we are not related by blood thats why he is always please his family is it r

mmm well my mom always told me that the family comes firstBUT when you get marry your husband comes first (in your case YOU comes FIRST!) and you need to talk with your husband

You two are married now, so that means you're making a new household, blood-related or no, you're the top of your new household right now, so I think you've got to talk heart-to-heart with your husband. Valuing family is very good indeed, but right now, you two are also a family :)