My husband says go for it.

So, I know I’m attracted to women, I’ve known this since I was young – but growing up in a very conservative family it would have never have been acceptable. Now that I’m in a committed relationship with a man that wants nothing but the best for me he’s concerned that I’ve never explored this part of myself. I just feel like that if I did sleep with a woman that it would be considered cheating, he doesn’t feel this way but I do. I’m thinking I need more time and if it seems right then I will.

I just find it confusing – I do want it, but I feel like it would be wrong to do it.

Category: Sexuality asked November 18, 2013

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Seaweedgrass

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I am happy that you spoke to your husband about this, and I am happy that he is so accepting. Now, with believing that exploring your sexuality is wrong, you need to talk with your husband and have him explain why he believes it is not wrong. In my opinion, it cannot be considered cheating if all parties are aware, meaning that you, your husband, and the possible woman all know what is happening. The thing is, you also need to be comfortable with the idea.

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Raven

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Well since you've spoken to your husband and everything, I think you should go for it too, it's not considered cheating if the your other half is willing, plus it's probably gonna be a one thing time right? If your okay with the idea too, then I don't see a reason why you shouldn't. Good luck :)

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Mercy

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If he loves you than he can't be completely ok with it. I can't imagine anyone being alright with the idea of the person you love giving him/herself to someone else.

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Rui Gomes

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That's the problem, I think he says yes - simply because he doesn't want me to miss out on experiences because we're married. But honestly I think it would hurt him if I actually did - not that he would tell me if did hurt - he just wants me to be happy.

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Seaweedgrass