So here is the details. We are still considered “newly weds” and my husband has no desire to make love. The rare occasions when he is in the mood he is incapable of doing so. He can not – for lack of a better term – become turned on fully and IF he ever does he can not complete the act. I am tired of making excuses for him in my own mind. I have discussed it with him and have tried to get to the root of the problem but he seems to think there isn’t a problem. It is making me depressed because from my stand point if theres no real reason it must be that he isn’t turned on by me. With this being said I keep finding my eyes wandering trying to find someone that could do this for me. I could use any advice.