My husband doesn’t want to make love?

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So here is the details. We are still considered “newly weds” and my husband has no desire to make love. The rare occasions when he is in the mood he is incapable of doing so. He can not – for lack of a better term – become turned on fully and IF he ever does he can not complete the act. I am tired of making excuses for him in my own mind. I have discussed it with him and have tried to get to the root of the problem but he seems to think there isn’t a problem. It is making me depressed because from my stand point if theres no real reason it must be that he isn’t turned on by me. With this being said I keep finding my eyes wandering trying to find someone that could do this for me. I could use any advice.

Category: asked February 8, 2014

3 Answers

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Well there is actually is a very rare case in which a person feels little to no sexual attraction towards anyone and has no desire for it, also known as being Asexual. There is absolutely nothing wrong with him, it's just like having sexual attraction, you can't control or force it. It's just the way he is and how he may always be. If you want to know more, there is a whole website on it called Asexuality.com. It can help clear up any other questions you may have about it.
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It is quite possible that he is asexual but my only issue with that is that when we first got together he was very much interested in sexual activity and it seemed to dwindle down gradually and now we are at a *possible* one time a month
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It could be erectile dysfunction or something medical that maybe he is too scared to talk about?