I have been dating a wonderful girl for the past 20 months and recently she has brought up some concerns that although I am the man of her dreams and I am perfect for her, she feels a hesitancy about getting engaged within the next 6 months. She is unsure as to why she is having these feelings and she thinks it doesn’t have to do with me (ie. It’s her, not me). Obviously marriage is a major commitment that is meant to last a lifetime therefore it is one of the biggest decisions someone will ever make and I’m concerned that she is doubting herself simply due to how important of a decision it is. Is there a way she can be more confident in herself and trust the feelings she has for me?