My friend got herself in quite some trouble…

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My friend recently moved from Russia to America a little over a year ago. We met in school and have been friends ever since. Back in Russia she told me how she always dated older men, drank, smoked. She has also been through a lot in life. Like the death of her biological parents and the death of her adoptive father. Awhile ago I introduced her to my family friend (15) and they really hit it off. They ended up dating. All was well until my family friends 23 year old friend who i also know started messaging my Russian friend on Facebook. (She is sixteen) He wanted to meet her in person and wanted to have sex with her. Somehow my family friend found out and now they aren’t talking. Eventually my Russian friend and the 23 year old stopped talking. My family friend told my dad what was going on yesterday and now my dad wants to get involved. He told the 23 year olds father and now he might go to jail, if he decides to call the cops. I also found out that nude pictures were exchanged and that the 23 year old is a drug dealer. My dad wants to know all I know but I don’t want him to tell me I can’t hangout with her, she is still my friend. I am not sure what to do. My family friend and Russian friend broke up because of it. Any advice?

Category: Tags: asked November 29, 2013

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I am going to be completely honest and tell you that she isn't a good person to be around. BUT, you should still stick with her and help her through this because your positive influence can stop her from keeping her old ways of smoking, drinking, inappropriate things. I do think that police should be contacted because of the 23 year old. That is illegal, the end period. But you should definitely help her through this.
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Okay so here's the thing I totally had a similar situation, and but I was the Russian girl. I slept with a guy who was 21 and grew pot for a living, I'm 15. Honestly, it isn't such a bad thing we still talk and are good friends, we would probably go out if it weren't for the distance issue. Just talk to your friend, don't judge her but help her stay away from guys and just get her mind off things, that's what I'd want my friends to do. You seem super caring which is awesome she should appreciate your concern. Tell your parents she isn't seeing anyone and that you are trying to be a positive influence on her life, they should understand that :) best of luck!!