My first break up

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Hi,
Im Anna , a 16 year old girl who recently just had my first real break up.

Holden and I had dated since I was 13, but it got more serious when I turned 15.

I love him very much, but he just decided to call it quits, so i am too.

How long do you think it will take me to get over him? I honestly dont know,
He knew everything about me and its just kinda weird to have an empty space in my life.

I feel like i need him back,
but I dont.

How did you handle your first break up?
any tips?

Category: asked November 9, 2014

3 Answers

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Honestly, my opinion is that you shouldnt be upset over him. If he doesnt want you anymore, for whatever reason, thats his problem. Hes not worth it if he cant love you unconditionally
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I have recently gone through my first real breakup too.. It hurts, a lot. It will hurt for a while. I broke his heart, he was so deeply in love with me and so was I. I finally got over it though, I met someone else. He treats me perfect. Try to keep yourself busy and your mind off of him. Don't think about what he is doing or who he is with. Think about you. You need to make yourself happy, that's always first. I was doing stuff every night, it will take a while, but it works. I tried writing down all of the things I didn't like about him, that helps too. Its hard letting someone go, trust me, I know. It's the first of many. Remember, the love of your life, the one you're going to marry is somewhere out there, and you're going to find him, I promise (:
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Watch this video and tell me if this helps!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQmdy6r8iiU