My ex is dating my friend……I need help

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I have this is ex…we were dating 3 years ago….We got separated when I move to a new school…Now that I’ve come back I’ve learned that he is now dating my friend…My friend told me that it was just a fling and nothing serious….so I trusted her…but later on I’ve found out that they were going steady….I don’t have any “feelings” for him anymore but it’s kinda awkward when I bond with my friend because my classmates keeps on saying “things”…………….What should I do? :(

Category: asked August 7, 2014

6 Answers

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If you don't have any feelings for him anymore,don't bother..Plus people are out there always wanting to gossip on anything,you cannot stop them and they do not have a life,you do so ignore them completely..
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Be bigger than them, and not care. If people see that you don't care, they'll stop saying "things" because they'll see that there's not really much drama to gossip about.
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Yeah, you're right but I want my friend again :( I want to bond with her, talk to her but I can't! I miss my friend so much
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You don't have to be selfish... he's already out of your life. That's why ex means X (crossed out/removed from the list/the story of both of you is over). Don't feel awkward if he's dating your friend, your relative or even your best friend, look at the brighter side and give them a chance, we are all looking for a comfortable life and relationship (they might win or lose). You will never be able to go to the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the past.
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Don't listen to them, the past is in the past for a reason. You said it yourself, you don't have any feelings for him anymore. Be happy for them, both of them. Get to know your friend,
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Its great to know that you have moved on but that situation is just so awkward. I am sorry to say this but there is something wrong with your ex dating two girls who happened to be friends. Although youre not feeling any bitterness, i feel like her, dating your ex, might get in the way of your friendship. Could it be your friend doesnt want you to be close to her bf in the fear that feelings might spark again, i dont know. Personally, I cant imagine one of my close friends to date my ex. I would probably even consider that as a form of betrayal especially if during those times you were going through the break up part they were the one comforting you.