my crush will go abroad…please help

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First of all sorry for any grammar mistakes..it’s not my first language,I had a crush on a girl about two years ago,I was obsessed,I couldn’t tell her I was so shy and i wasn’t social, I had many troubles with life,I know it’s my fault…,anyway she noticed and tried to make me talk,idk if she likes me too,I tried to forget about her I thought that i forgot,until I knew about her going abroad,I went crying for two days and dreaming of her every night,sometimes I doubt if I really have to forget or not,.and she will stay away for a year,and then come back,and I was planning to emigrate when I finish high school (after a year) I am not sure if I will be able but it’s too important to me,idk what to do..I know it’s my fault don’t make fun of me please

Category: asked August 25, 2014

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Hi Med! No reason to mock you! Emotions happen. Honestly telling her before she goes seems to be in everyone's best interest. She maybe curious if you find her appealing, so clarification is ALWAYS appreciated, and you'd be getting it out of your system. People only date when one steps out there and initiates it. So then you tell her. She'll either accept your suggestion and you'd develop something or she'll not be interested in going that route. In that case the discomfort will be temporary with her leaving for a year to return, where you could still keep in touch somehow. Unless you think you'll move on, though you sound pretty invested, I suggest going for it. Good luck. (: