my crush is flirting with me


I have a huge crush on this girl( we’re both girls) and I don’t know if she’s also into girls coz she looks like she isnt. But I think she has an idea that I like her or that I like girls and she’s like flirting with me. I always get nervous when we’re together coz she’s touchy and so sweet to me. Ofcourse I like it but I just dont know what she means with her actions.

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3 Answers

A person's appearance is not a valid indicator of their sexual orientation. You can guess all you want, but the only way to know is to ask. That being said, it's definitely possible you are reading into it because you're hopeful it's true. No worries there, we all do it! Prepare yourself for any outcome, and try not to be to disappointed if it doesn't work out the way you wanted to.
Don't lose hope though! Continue to enjoy her company as just a regular person. Like squidfase said, be open and honest with her. Communication is always ALWAYS key. Good luck!
The best way to go about it is just to be honest. Tell her you don't want to freak her out or anything and let her know you won't change your behavior afterward the conversation you want to have with her. Explain to her your feelings of more then friendship, and inquire if she might have the same feelings. Tell her if she doesn't that's fine, and that you will drop the subject and move on! Remember you can't force someone to love you, but people do appreciate it when you are brutally honest with them. If she does have a problem with it, then it's better that you're not friends then having to hide something from her the rest of your friendship.
Thank you guys! :)