My Boyfriend might go to prison?

we’ve been together for a year and a half..im his first serious relationship..as he is to me as well. we’ve been rocky since march..i got pregnant and we decided on an abortion because we couldn’t take care of the baby..it really messed his head up and he kicked me out and started a new relationship. then he realized what he was doing and we got back together in june. just recently he got in trouble (again) and is looking at possibly 5 years in prison or maybe a little more. he already did about 2 years and just got out when we started dating…we moved in together and fell in love ever since.

but im just so sad..ive gone from living with the love of my life everyday for almost 2 years to being all by myself without my bestfriend/boyfriend. he says im not comforting and I make him sad but its so hard when he tells me all the time that he doesn’t believe me that im gonna ride out with him. idk it just hurts me. how can I make myself feel better?

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gpsbabyyy

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First of all, let me just say don't let anyone tell you that you made the wrong choice about abortion because that was entirely your choice and no one else's so don't listen to them. If your boyfriend was recently released from prison and then goes back in, what does it tell you about him as a person? Imprisonment is supposed to teach criminals not to commit crimes again, it's supposed to teach them a lesson to make them change. If he hasn't changed at all from being released then he's learnt/succeeded at nothing. Regardless of this however, it's your personal choice if you truly do love him then be there for him if he needs your support. Just show him that you care and show him that you'll be there for him no matter what happens, that is if you truly do love him. As long as you're there for him, he'll see that and he should respect that and love you in return. I'm sure you have opportunities to visit him, so you should just take every chance you get. But don't be sad or upset, that won't help it will just make you depressed and make matters worse. Just be there for him and show him that you care & love him. Remember though, it's your choice if you want to stay with him or if you want to move on so I suggest you think about this carefully. Hope it all works out.

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Evergreen

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are you serious? you ask how can you make yourself feel better? try moving on....finding a boyfriend who is all grown up now and stable.

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Robin

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