So for Christmas as a part of my gift, he got me a pair of shoes. I am size 6 and the shoes he got for me were labeled as a 6, but they were actually a size 8 so today I returned them, but their store credit (gift card) machine wasn’t working so they just refunded the money onto my debit card. I told my boyfriend this, and he asked what I was going to do with the money and I said I am going to buy another pair of shoes with it. And he got upset with me saying that it’s disrespectful that I wouldn’t offer to give him the money back so he could get another gift himself for me. I then was like “oh ok that makes sense, ya I’ll take the money out of the bank” and he was like “no I don’t want it now, it’s ok” I guess he’s just mad that I didn’t offer and just assumed I could buy whatever I want with his money. I mean I kind of understand, but I also think he should want me to get whatever I like with it. Is he overreacting or does he have a point?