My boyfriend and I are drifting a part and I don’t know what to do?

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Last year our relationship was great. It couldn’t have been more perfect but this year we suddenly started drifting apart… We’re both busy but it’s more than just is being busy. I’m afraid that he may be losing interest in me but he won’t admit it even when I asked him straight up. It’s great that he’s hanging out with new people but I think that I deserve some of his time too. What do I do? I feel like I’ve tried everything. One day I’ll decide that I just won’t try to get his attention anymore but that won’tast very long because I need him and he used to need me also. I’m just tired and kind of scared… Thanks to anyone who helps! You all are awesome :)

Category: asked November 9, 2014

4 Answers

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talk to him, openess and honestly are two things that keeps a relationship strong. tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way too try changing things up a bit. plan a few dates, surprise gifts, whatever you do don't give up with out trying!
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Tell him how you feel, talk about your feelings. And set a time for you two to just hang out woth nobody else around..
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Sounds to me like a date night is in order! My wife and I have to juggle careers and kids around being able to hang out. Not the answer, not a solution, a mere suggestion. As mentioned above, you all need to talk about this. He may not even know that your are being bothered or troubled. It could just be what you need to get the spark re-ignited. Hope this finds you well and helps a little!
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You absolutely should NOT have to compete for his attention. You're his girlfriend! I would speak to him and share how you feel with him, and if he is a keeper, he will be compassionate and make time for you ASAP. If not? Ditch him! You want someone who would move mountains to see you, and if there's no effort from him, he is so not worth it.