my boyfriend, of almost 8 months, is always telling me that i need to workout and lose weight. im 102 lbs, and just like everyone else, i have a tummy when i bend over.
he saw that and told me, “you need to work out” and i just looked at him and said, “im not fat.” and then he sat there for a few seconds, and then finally said, “you’re perfect the way you are.” but i feel like he’s lying.
everytime we’re out and about, he always looks at the “thicker” girls, and just is like disgusted. and most of the time, they arent even that big. theyre like the perfect size. he’s even getting a sticker for his car that says “no fat girls allowed” and that is like pressuring me to stay the way i am and not gain any weight, or to even lose weight.
i feel like in the future, if i am more than 150 lbs, hes going to look at me in disgust and lose complete interest in me. its not okay, what hes doing to me. right?
