My best friends don’t like me dating my best guy friend…

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So my best friends (2 girls and then my present boyfriend) have been bestfriends for years and recently me and my bestfriend started dating. After we were together for a week, our other friends started treating us different.. They’d ignore us, whisper and laugh at us, and just being mean girls. Eventually me and my boyfriend talked and said that it didn’t matter and they can get over it. Well then they just came out and said that we shouldn’t date because we spend too much time together..What?! We have 1 class period together and then lunch at school, and we had currently only been on 1 date!!!! I thought they were my bestfriends, I mean they should be happy for me right? (Oh and one friend dated him as well, but that was in 6 GRADE!!!! Maybe a smidge of jealousy??) me and my boyfriend have looked past it but I still want to be close to my girls, what should I do?

Category: Tags: asked January 27, 2014

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If youre serious about wanting to date him and you are happy with him, tell your friends that. Open up and tell them that this is something you really want and that you want them to still be in your life as well. Letting them know that theyre upsetting you should be enough, if they are true friends worth keeping, they will realize how immature they were being and try to salvage whats left of the friendship while they still can. If they continue to be rude about it, then you need to realize that no matter how long you know a person, that doesn't mean they are good for you or that they are true friends.
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Your friends are jealous. Ignore them. They are not your dating approval board.