So I got some really good advice here today about talking to my 19 y/o son who’s starting a new relationship and hasn’t brought the new girl around. He’s also gone all the time and missed Sunday family dinner yesterday. We’re a big, very close Italian family, and that’s a HUGE deal. The person (for the life of me I can’t remember who. I’m so sorry it’s my first day) gave me great advice about talking to my son. I was ready to do so until I realized we are both VERY emotional people. I cry very easily and I know I won’t be able to tell him what I want without breaking out in tears. I just want to tell him how much I love him and that he’s an amazing young man whom I trust completely. I know he’s a good kid and I love him very much (I do tell him all the time that I love him) and I only want what’s best for him. That I’ll support him no matter what. There’s a lot that I want to tell him but here’s my question……..since I break down in tears so easily, do you think I could maybe write him a letter?? I just want to tell him everything I have in my heart. I tear up right now writing this because I love him so much and I’m so proud of him. I just think that for me a letter would be more effective. What do you think would be most effective???