Moving too quickly

Hey everyone. So me and my bestfriend, very recently confessed our hidden love for one another. Lovely, yes. But He is FAR more experienced than I am. Our relationship is escalating so quickly that I am terrified. We are going to end up ruining our relationship over lust, before things even get started. So my question is, How do we slow this relationship down? Get our relationship into the PG13 stage for a few months.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked April 15, 2013

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Miklak

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Talk to him. Let him know you're afraid of having the physical attraction running the relationship right into the ground. that you're not ready to move so fast. Let him know that you're afraid his physical experience is greater than yours and while your excited to experience things with him you're not ready to do that now. And you'd rather explore and learn and experience with him slowly so you can enjoy all of the physical and emotional bonding that happens in such an act.

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Swifting

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I'm having the same problem in my relationship. Maybe its time to just talk to him about how uncomfortable you are. It may feel like an awkward talk but he is also your best friend he will understand and don't worry you wont lose him.

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Davyn