Moving from past love

Going through basically thr same thing. 2 months ago my girlfriend of 2 an a half years cheated on me right before my birthday. What's been helping me a bit has been cutting of contact from her more and more, and also going out and talking to other girls. I know it sucks to have to go through this but try to start taking steps to try to forget her. If it wasn't ment to be, it wasn't ment to be. So go out, flirt, date, and do anything to get her off your mind

You have to realize when something isn't worth fighting for. Relationships can be difficult enough when both parties are fully committed; they become pretty impossible when one party isn't fighting for the relationship any more. If she doesn't want to be with you anymore, then you have to let her go and move on, as hard as that may be. Get out. Meet new people. Go on dates with new girls. Just imagine - if it is this hard to let go of the wrong person, imagine how amazing it will feel to be with the right person :)My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me so he could date a girl I worked with. They broke up after a week (seriously. And they're adults), but I wouldn't take him back, although he tried. I was single for over a year and didn't even try dating until after 8-10 month had passed. 3 years later - now I'm engaged to an amazing man and I'm so glad I didn't settle, because I didn't realize how great the right relationship could really be until I had it.

get urself busy dude !!without her !!sitting idle will creep her memories into you!!and keep ursld occupied around with friends and activities !!may b in future u myt find a true love!!there is always hope

Sometimes you can't forget about a person. Someone people have that one person that has came into their lives and known as their "first love" or you know whatever this girl is to you. Sometimes you can't forget about someone you thought you loved, a piece of you will always think of them, but to move on just find someone new. Someone that makes you forget about this girl and makes you realize she wasn't as great as you thought she was. Hope I helped!

Went through something similar, the best advice I can tell is don't let your life be at a pause because of it, it may hurt for a while, and even so you will think about it often as you have been but sooner or later, you will be thankful you were given an opportunity to love in the first place, you've felt something that some long for, the fact that you've got the experience can only show you what you deserve, you want someone whose going to be on the same page you are, you may go through numerous of relationships, but that's what being young in 2014 is all about trial and error. As cliche as it sounds, you will meet someone who will make you even happier, and show you what you deserve and you will be able to give it back. A relationship takes two people, you can't make someone stay with you, or depend on someones existence, you only live for yourself so make the best out of it. Even though it's tough people are going to do whatever they want, no matter what you say to them, and that's something that we can't change. Keep your head up and be patient with yourself xx

Hello

Like so many I've had my share of heartbreaks. I can sit here and tell you how you'll get over it and move on... things will be better but I don't think it would help. It won't help but I should also say you will get over a past love exactly when you decide to... it isn't easy but it is just a decision.

This part is much more practical and maybe useful.

I really don't like to be unhappy and after a particular breakup I was not handling it well. The breakup was very abrupt without warning and no second chances. I really loved this person and although their feelings chanced mine hadn't... in fact even now. So I did what many people probably do and you fantasize about the past and wish how you could go back and do it all over but better. I went a little farther and even said to myself that I would even go back just to live it all again... knowing it was doomed to end I still had a great time. Saying that to myself really got me to thinking.

If I take a step back and look at the relationship from star to finish. Add up all the good times and the bad... and honestly say that regardless of knowing it would end that I would live it again... why am I so afraid to start anew with someone else? I couldn't possibly know if falling again would result in a relationship till death do us part or a few weeks but, I've found, the journey is worth it. Once I realized this I've never again worried about loving and not being loved in return... I just worry about enjoying life.

I hope this helps.