Mother Hates Best Friend + Her Parents?

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To put the base to this question is 5-6 months ago I had a self harm/ suicide attempt which led to my mother and I having a rough and painful night at the emergency room, police, ambulances and firetrucks. She was very very sad and so was I, I felt so horrible about it, afterwards I was diagnosed with clinical depression, suicidal, bipolar II and heavy anxiety. During a period of time of a year where my parents didn’t know about my issues, my friend and her parents did. I didn’t choose to tell her parents, my friend blabbed to her parents and though I was upset greatly about that, I got over it.
But my mother was so angry about them not telling her, she was so mad, she mentions that she hates them, she never wants to see them or my best friend ever and she screams, hits herself, goes crazy and its causes me so much pain and strife.
I want to help my mother but I just don’t quite understand. I understand the fact that she was in great pain from the event of my suicide attempt and she wasn’t the best at handling it. In fact she made me more depressed with all the screaming she did to me. She made fun of me and referred to my self harm as “strange things” I love her so much but sometimes she is the cause of my pain and depression.
Any help please? I’ve already tried talking to her several times, only a result of us drifting apart. I just believe she’s not exactly being reasonable.

Category: Tags: asked October 23, 2014

1 Answer

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can your therapist or psychiatrist talk to her?