Meeting up with my ex?

So I broke up with my ex back in October it wasn’t planned we had a conversation/argument some things were said and in short we both wanted different things so I ended it. It really pained me to do so as i really liked her and i was a mess for a bit. She would text me every now and then saying i miss you etc Which I wouldn’t reply as i was trying heal also a bit rude i know.

She sent me a letter back in December about how she felt also how I was special to her and remember the good times which I replied and said ” thanks hope you’re well and have a good new years”

She saw me back in January on the street which i got a text asking how i was and “i didnt have to reply if i didnt want to” which i replied to. I then got a text last week from asking me to meet up if it was possible and to let her know i replied with” i have to ask why?” which I’ve got no response that was last Monday.

I just dont know what to do?
What could she want?

Category: Dating & Relationships Tags: ex girlfriend relationships asked February 2, 2015

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Bjorn

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From what you've described, she's still into you. I know how it feels to break up with someone when you just feel like a complete mess, but what sort of state do you think you're in, now? Do you think you could potentially have a healthy relationship with her again, if you're still interested? If not, I wouldn't meet up with her. It'll just bring up old feelings again, and it may pain you more than you are ready to encounter. That being said, it's up to you if you want to try things again.
If you don't want to have a relationship with her, you'll have to stop contacting her, because she doesn't seem like she's ready to let go. She still feels like she can talk to you, that she has a chance to be with you again. You need to make it clear where you stand in that context. - You're welcome to message me if you have something else you want to talk about, I'll certainly talk with you about it.

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Tam

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