Me and my 5000 miles away boyfriend

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So we met and clicked – it was as easy as it was. We went for dates, movies, hangouts, and even had sex; but then he needed to leave for his home country. We planned however that we needed to see each other again which was realized. Now we are planning to go for another rendezvous; the interval should be two months. If you call this a date then we have been dating for 6 months.

Then I am feeling this anxiety. I got this attention from some people which is nice but I knew that I could not go for it – I am a faithful person, naively. Looking at some points I am now starting to wonder what happened to that person residing 5000 miles away from me; will he be not looking for attention from others? How can he not be tempted from all temptations standing in front of him?

Most of you I suppose will suggest TRUST is the basic thing on this; but I am really confused now. I was thinking before I go too far I might have to break up with him. I am afraid to hurt and to get hurt though (knowing that he actually wanted to do similarly).

I am such a mess now it affects whatever things I do I cannot concentrate.

Category: Tags: asked June 18, 2013

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follow your intuitive heart.......ask yourself how much longer can you take being so far away......while it must be fun to fling internationaly,..... where is it going to lead you? .....when will the distance shrink?.....are you both in agreement to be exclusive?......why not enjoy new people while you can? ...and still have your international fun?