loving a friend

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I have a friend and I have been hanging out with him. We are good friends and I always enjoy spending time with him. Recently though I have developed very strong feelings for him. The problem is, he has a girlfriend, who I ha e never met. I don’t know what to dobecause I have tried to just get over my feelings but it hurts me. I dont want to tell him either because I am afraid I will lose a close friend. Help.

Category: asked June 24, 2013

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Honestly? I think loving a friend is the best kind of love.. I'm personally dating my very best friend in the entire world, and I've never been happier. Don't worry about losing a friend, if they're a real friend they'll stick with you. Maybe wait until he and his girlfriend break up because face it: They most likely will not last forever. Then, tell him how you really feel. Chances are, he'll feel the same. ^_^ Good luck!
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any friendship worth it will survive even if the feelings aren't mutual. when i was in this situation i would hate when people say "you never know until you try" but that would imply losing everything. i just think that if this person cares enough they won't drop you from their life. maybe wait until their out of a relationship so they don't feel like you're making them chose.