Love vs Poor Guy vs Rich Guy

I had an Ex, we broke up 2 months ago.. I didnt know why but we started talking few days ago… and she misses me a lot, she told me that an ex that has a good job moved recently to the city and that it was the reason she broke up with me, she said she wouldnt have to worry about money or a house… but then she says that I made her feel so happy and special and she is struggling with that. I still love her, Im moving soon to the US and I’m into IT, so I might get a good job too… but I dont know how to let her know CHOOOSE ME! I feel like alladin….
Thanks!

Category: Dating & Relationships asked November 11, 2014

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Jewlius

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In high school I had two guys that I strung along until they both realized I was never actually in love with them. I didn't know I wasn't until I got my first heartbreak. I loved them in a way the I could never be with them. It sounds to me like this girl is kind of going through something similar. Keep doing things to make yourself happy and the more she sees you doing well the more it might keep her around.

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skysky2129

It sounds like it's her with the problem, like she's been led to believe that's what she should want but it isn't what she actually wants. Anyway, skysky made a good comment, don't worry too much about her but concentrate on yourself and one day you may have both sides... Whether or not you'll still find her interesting when you're proving to be such a great guy is her lookout.

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Dave

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Do yourself a favor and move on. You do not want to be with someone that only wants another person for their money, it's a sign of being shallow IMO. You can find someone better!

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Kitsu

I wouldn't really trust a girl like that. She seems to be more interested in material things. If love was her priority she wouldn't have left in the first place. Sorry dude :|

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Abby V.