Love hurts..

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I’ve fallen in love.. I’d consider us to be close, however we’ve never actually met. I’ve never connected in a way that I have with her, I can tell her things that no other person has ever heard. It’s the same back, I guess we help each other.

But recently these feelings have grown, as I previously said I think I may be in love with her, but I know she doesn’t love me back. She tells me about the last time she had sex, and everything she did and the next time she will with her ‘fuckbuddy’… I tell you something, talking about that hurts me more than anything. I’m okay with that, I’m here to help her, but it hurts so bad.

I guess it’s mixed signals, she says things to me that indicate a relationship, and I say them back. Is it just harmless fun? Because I have had many sleepless nights over her, wishing she was by my side just like we talked about.

Category: Tags: asked March 25, 2014

3 Answers

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Please tell her how you are feeling, maybe you are surprised and se does feel something for you. But you can't just assume she doesn't feel anything, you need to ask and talk about it, because it is really hard to be in your place and hear that the person you like "loves" others, is not even healthy for you, there's no way this situation can end okay if you don't do this as soon as possible, so be brave, I support you! :D and good luck!
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dude. you gotta tell her. I actually found out that a friend of mine (who i had a really intense crush on back in highschool) actually had a crush on me during the same time. We would tell eachother about our romantic exploits and we would both be jealous or hurt, but neither of us were the wiser. you gotta tell her.
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You gotta tell her how you feel! Sometimes the person we love or have feelings for are absolutely clueless that we have those feelings for them. And they feel the exact same way back! So tell her. Good luck!