Love at a distance

I met a guy over the internet a while back, him and I basically have EVERYTHING in common, we bonded pretty quickly, and then I started to like him. But, he lives in Australia and I live in America. Him and I are in a relationship now, but it’s hard because of the distance, him and I want to hold each other, but I mostly want to cuddle him, I really think he’s the one, but I don’t like the distance, I do have a small job, and I’m working on saving up enough money to see him. We don’t Skype anymore, because my Laptop doesn’t have a hard drive (Planning on buying a hard drive) but we use Tinychat because I don’t have to download it. He doesn’t have a camera, just a headset, but his voice is so calming and I love it. I sent him something for Valentine’s Day over the mail on Monday. What could we do to keep the relationship strong until I can see him?

Category: Dating & Relationships Tags: #ldr #longdistance relationship #longdistanceboyfriend #longdistancegirlfriend asked February 12, 2014

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†☯Ridacy☯†

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I think if you and him both want the relationship, then it will work. I always say that people can make a relationship work as long as they want it too. Also, just make sure you guys have that communication. That is key. And also make sure there is trust there between you guys. My only thing is, hopefully you plan on meeting because neither of you are going to stay happy knowing that you two haven't met yet. Don't exactly rush it, and wait till you have the resources, but make sure you meet that way you both know it's right and you don't have to wonder about what if. Hope it hellped!

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Nicole

They say communication's the key, so make sure you're openly communicating your needs and he's openly communicating his needs. Save money to visit each other. Also, Skype is a free download that allows you to video call him and im him. You two could look into that. Emails are a good idea too. Me and my friend, even though we're at long distances, communicate everyday, or at least try to. We Skype each other, and join websites together. We make websites together, you can do that for free at proboards.com , and we write together since we're both writers. Just make sure you're communicating and you'll get through the hard time. -MultipleMinds

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MultipleMinds

Try to cope with the distance. Hopefully one day soon you can schedule a meet up if possible. Till then you can talk, do video calls, listen to the same music/videos at the same times, just enjoy yourselves together. There isn't really a way to give a cuddle but you can always send him virtual ones. I wish you all the best.

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Blossoming_road

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Did you two ever met? If yes, then skype, text, facebook. Talk to him, day and night, to make you feel that he is around you. Skype all day long if you have to, so that you never feel alone. Give skype hugs? i know its silly, grab a pillow and hug while skyping? Sometimes i go out of town, for a week or month. But we skype. Remember distance doesn't create the gap, between people. What creates the gap is when people change, doesn't give time. I hope it won't go that far. All the best for both of you :)

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Sheikh Rifat