I have the opportunity to lose my virginity to a good friend of mine. But it won’t be out of love for me. I always wanted to lose it to someone I was madly in love with. Think I should wait? Or go ahead?
I agree with the previous writer. If it doesn't feel totally right you shouldn't do it. And if you want to lose your virginity to someone who's romantically in love with you and your friend isn't, you should wait for someone else. Losing your virginity isn't something you need to rush either, just let it take its time, no need to hurry. Also as Kyokugami said, you don't want to put your friendship at risk. However if you do decide to lose your virginity to your friend, make sure you won't regret it and that it was YOUR choice.
Wait! Never lose it to a friend losing virginity should be with a guy you care and love for that feels the same care and love for you! If a friend ask you if he can have your virginity with no feeling attached that's just a bootie call respect yourself and respect your own body :) good luck!
You should totally wait because first time having sex should be with your partner.. Why? Well because at least you know if you bleed or if it doesn't go as planned you still have someone who stays by yourside instead of walking out on you or just being very awkward.. You could ruin what relationship you have with your friend if you do and then once again.. the biggest feeling is regret.. Regret that you didn't lose it to a man who loves you and who you love.. Regret that if it turns awkward you know he probably wont stay around
You should deffaintly wait, coming from someone who lost her virginity to a guy who i thought was good enought, but i thought alot about it and had some reservation... There shouldnt be a question about it, when the guy, time and everything is right you wont question it. Trust me, if you feel you may regret it after or change yours and his friendship dont do it. But if you decide its the right decison for you then go ahead, if you feel 100% okay with the situation.