Looking for the right word or phrase for this situation

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Long story short

I was friends with someone from 5th grade to the end of 12th grade. We were going on a senior trip and 3 people (1 who I use to be friends with). Let’s just say the 3 friends didn’t want me around. I decided to try and keep them happy for as long as I could (didn’t get in their way). I ended up being ditched, and it hurt me bad. Now we’re not friends.

So heres my thing. I’ve been by this Girl forever. I stood by her through everything. I helped her through everything. The girls She chose me over she has told me are liars, make up stories and talk behined others backs. She’s scared of them. After I was by her side she wasn’t by mine and she chose people she doesn’t trust over someone who’s loyal. They hurt me nd hey don’t care. The past 8 years mean nothing anymore.

What word or phrase can discribe this situation? I can’t find the right ones

Category: asked July 9, 2013

2 Answers

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In regards to maybe describing how you feel, I think appropriate terms might be "shunned" or "betrayed". I was in a similar situation when I was younger and I surely felt that way. It's a bit of a stretch, but maybe even "exiled" may be applied to the situation. Hope those help you out! I am so sorry this has happened to you! Stay strong, at the end of the day you are the one who has nothing to feel bad about when you close your eyes at night. -Kate xx
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Just really bad friends, well people in general because friends don't treat friends like that. I would not hang around them anymore.. I know it sucks, trust me I have those kinds of people who are or was in my life and I just the hell with them.