I hope you can give me some advice!
I currently live with my brother. He is quite a ‘bad’ weed smoker.
We are both renting from my dad’s house (no parents live with us). He works during the day (unless he calls in skiving which is a common occurrence) and will begin smoking from the time he’s home until the early hours of the morning.
On the weekend due him only working weekdays he will have friends over (EVERY Friday night for last about 6 weeks) and with full knowledge me and my girlfriend have to wake up for 530 to go to work.. All of these friends also smoke weed all night in the house. (Again, my dad’s house).
All of them are inconsiderate of belongings. They have broken a neighbours shed window with a Frisbee. Broke my cage in the garden for my guinea pigs with a football. Lost numerous items from our garden too. They are VERY loud. All night. Slamming things down. Shouting. Cheering. Music.
I don’t care he smokes weed and all his friends do. I care he does it in the house he lives in with me and my girlfriend. We both do not smoke. He is making my girlfriend ill with the constant smoke from the chimney that is his bedroom.
The noise and breaking things is also a problem.
My main question is.. do I tell my dad?
I have put off and put off telling my dad as I don’t want to ‘dob my brother in’ and I really don’t want t to see/know my dad is angry and upset.
My brother is meant to buying the house we live in in a month or so, with some gift money from my dad to help and I feel he’s disrespecting our dad big time.
Once it’s his house he can do what he wants as it won’t affect me/us. Problem is.. neighbours will still be affected by noise, carelessness, and weed smoke coming over their fence when they do decide to venture out side.