Lesbian relationship advice?

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I am 13 and just entered my first relationship with my best friend. Were testing to see if we like it or not, if not we go back to being friends. This is also my first relationship, and I need advice.

Category: asked September 28, 2014

4 Answers

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I'm not super experienced with lesbian relationships, seeing as I'm a guy :P, but it's no different than any other relationship. Some of the most important things in a relationship are trusting your partner, don't go behind their back for info, ask them directly and you will be rewarded every time. Always remember that you can talk to your partner about whatever, that's part of being in a relationship. If you're having issues with something, talk to them about it; they've most likely gone through something like it before or are currently going through it. Most importantly, be there for your partner, this is what every relationship is about. And a side note, stay away from any sexual activities. It's not the same as heterosexual sex, but you're 13 and not ready to be committed to anything like that. Good luck! Please post again so we know how things are going! :)
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I agree with everything the previous answerer said. I myself am a lesbian and I have also had relationships with men and they are the same thing when going on the basics. Relationships are built off of trust, commitment, and, most importantly, love. I also agree with him in the fact that you should definitely refrain from any sort of sexual activity. While you can't get pregnant from homosexual sex, it does have a lot of emotions attached to it. And honestly, if you wait it will be all the better.But really, it's just like a friendship. There's just something more there. A trust and feeling that no friendship can have. Also you get to touch the boobies and that's awesome too.
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Thanks for your advice, guys. Things are going great and this has made our friendship stronger. :)
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I have no advice, but I just wanted to say good luck! In hindsight, I think life woulda been a lot better if I just went lesbian. I hope it all works out for you two!