*Post contains some sexual material
Ok I am going to try my best to make this all make sense… My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 7 months now. We live 7 hours away by car but I live in Canada and he lives in the U.S. We’ve skyped (camera and mic) so I know for sure he’s real.
Recently we’ve both have gotten jobs so we are both a lot busier than we were before. Unfortunately he works in the morning and I usually get evening shifts. Still, trying to make this relationship work I text him whenever I get up (even though I know he’s probably at work,) and give him little updates about my day. He does not put this much effort into texting me. In fact, ever since he’s gotten his job I feel like he puts little to no effort into our relationship in general. Whenever I try to bring this subject up he usually says sorry and then avoids texting me for hours. It’s gotten to a point where I feel like I put all the effort into the relationship and he doesnt even care anymore.
The next part I am a little embarrassed to share but I believe it is necessary to the story. The reason I started feeling like I needed to talk to someone else about this, to get a second opinion was because of an incident today. After I got off work he was texting me a lot more than he usually would. I of course was excited about this- I kept telling myself that I was just over thinking things whenever I was annoyed he wouldn’t text me. So of course, I wanted to talk about my day but he kept hinting that he wanted to sext. I wasn’t really feeling it but since I havent sexted with him for a while I decided I would(To please him because I *always* seem to be needing to please him). After that was done he said he loved me and then stopped texting me for the night… I felt so alone, like he just left me, and used me to blow his load. He’s never tried to text me with the only intention to sext before. I have no idea what to do. I have been thinking about breaking up but people always tell me to work on relationships before ending them. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions as to how to approach this? Thanks
