just wanna know

i have couple almost 2 years with someone and this LDR because she stay at Asian and i stay at Europe. less than a month we breakup because of this issue and she seems cannot handle it anymore (before this always argue about the distance and hard to be alone in her country and seeing other couple happy together) . And after that she become depressed and always cry. im still contact her because she want us become friend and i try my best to make her less depression because i thought she cannot handle us breakup but suddenly she just exploded and told me that she become stress because she like someone over there and the guys seems not interesting with him, he just wanna friend not more than that. i feel worse and blur and confused..we just breakup less than 2 weeks (in that time) and she start to have crush with other guys..how easy love can be gone in less 2 weeks..so i just wanna know..how girls can easy turn her love with someone new?how can they forget all words and promises have been saying before this in just less than a month?because seriously i cannot do that..and if my ex read this..i dont blame u..i just wanna know..i dont wanna ask u directly because i know u will quiet and dont have answer for it..is not about feeling..is about how can someone change it fast but im the one who take a time..

Category: Dating & Relationships asked October 30, 2014

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Luc

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Long distance relationships are tricky, although I can't say that you should have known what it will be like. No one knows what it will be like before getting into it.
But that is not the issue here anyway, Long distance had nothing to do with the way this girl acted, which is unforgivable by the way. You have to be careful though, this is not an attribute for girls to "turn their love to someone new and forget all words and promises". Some people are like that, but you're only going to experience it with girls, because, well, you date girls.
My advice is to learn from what happened and move on. Stay away from her because this is someone who has no regard but to her own feelings. I hope you will not come across many people like that in your life.

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ASOT

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All i can say is move on. Long Distance relationship isn't for everyone, before entering into it, the 2 of you should have known what it'll be like. Set your expectations. i bet she was already flirting with that guy she's crushing on while the 2 of you were still together.. SOME girls are bitches, deal with it. but NOT everyone are and that also applies to men.if the feelings are true , it wont just fades a way in a span of few weeks..unless she had someone reserved when the relationship wont work out.

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icychoco

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You should take a few months off talking to her, at least, consoling your ex through her unrequited love experience isn't good for you.

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rinseandrep

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