learn to love yourself, who you are...inside and insideout....jealousy is a wasted emotion, gets nothing accomplished and will keep you alone....I have nevet known anyone who wanted to be with a jealous person. besides, once you love and accept who you are minus the jealously of course, you will find that others will want to be around you, maybe even a shiny new boyfriend :) But i promise you, if you stay in your currant frame of mind, that jealously will turn to anger and resentment, poor health and other bad stuff, and alone coz no one wants to be around that. You have taken the first step towardz becomming a better, happier person by comming here and i appluade you for that, this is a great place to work out and talk out your woes. I know there is someone here who can help set gou in the right direction.