Jealous

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Lately I have become so jealous of people and their relationships. I feel so terrible because I have never dated or had a bf. I feel like no one ever likes me, and I just get so depressed. I hear people discuss their relationships and then I get super jealous and so sad. I don’t know what to do anymore. Lately it has become overwhelming. : |

Category: asked June 29, 2013

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learn to love yourself, who you are...inside and insideout....jealousy is a wasted emotion, gets nothing accomplished and will keep you alone....I have nevet known anyone who wanted to be with a jealous person. besides, once you love and accept who you are minus the jealously of course, you will find that others will want to be around you, maybe even a shiny new boyfriend :) But i promise you, if you stay in your currant frame of mind, that jealously will turn to anger and resentment, poor health and other bad stuff, and alone coz no one wants to be around that. You have taken the first step towardz becomming a better, happier person by comming here and i appluade you for that, this is a great place to work out and talk out your woes. I know there is someone here who can help set gou in the right direction.
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Love yourself! More than anything, learn to love yourself before loving others. The time you get a boyfriend will come, just be patient. Until then, learn to be confident and love everything about yourself. Don't be jealous because there's absolutely nothing to be jealous about, soon you'll be the couple others look at. The time will come sweetie, don't rush things.
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Thank you guys! I am overweight I always fear people judge me and I have poor behavior in social situations because of it, I am really shy. So getting a bf is hard for me, I have lost 18 pounds so I am trying. I guess hearing how great other people's relationships are is just a challenge for me.
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losing 18 pounds is awesome ! hang in there Tiffany ! You CAN do it :D