Is web cam cheating?

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My husband recently brought up the question if web camming is counted as cheating. I really didn’t know how to answer that but I know it made me feel weird. Any advice on how to deal?

Category: Tags: asked August 15, 2014

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It is up to individual couples to discern and define their relationship and their relationship terms. What is cheating for one couple could be Wednesday for another; there's no universal set of rules by which couples must abide.

There are couples who are perfectly okay with inviting other people into their bed, and there are those who can't.
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it's kinda.. i mean, he's meeting girls online. what for?? friendship?
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For me it's only really cheating if they remain in contact. Anonymous camming is similar to porn and i wouldn't see a huge problem in it. Although i would be offended that my partner had to seek another girl. Maybe ask him why he does it & if there's anyway you can improve your sexual relationship with him so that you not longer have to?
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Well, its similar to seeing someone, just this time its online. So, i guess, it could be considered as a form of cheating. If you think about it, what was his desire anyway that makes a person to look up people online to meet?
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it depends what your doing on the webcam. If your just talking on there and interacting then no, but if your doing sexual things and showing yourself nude and talking dirty, then yes, that would be cheating.
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It's a way of cheating. But it depends. If he is chatting with girls and doing some naughty stuffs, then it is.But just like what @icychoco said. Meeting girls? You may now decide if what you will feel.
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Basically if you have to ask yourself if what youre doing is cheating, then yes... its cheating. If there is any doubt in your mind that youre being faithful to your partner, then you should not be doing it. Those doubts come from thinking how you would feel in your significant other's shoes. So its always best to abide by that.
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I apologize if I made it sound like I was speaking about myself, but in fact I was talking about my husband asking the question. He wanted to know my opinion and I was just making sure that my feelings were somewhat mutual among others. I appreciate everyone's answer though I agree with most, I to believe that it's classified as cheating if you have to converse with one deal WebCam for sexual needs. Especially if you're doing it on a regular basis. Once again sorry for the misunderstanding, and I appreciate everyone's honesty........
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Pornography is such an epidemic these days. I struggle with that myself! I read recently that it's not the orgasm the men are really after... It's the chase!!! First it starts with pictures, then movies, and of course these days, there is "live" stuff like what your husband is asking about... I think he needs to put the brakes on...
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Indeed, this is very weird. First of all, it's strange why did your husband even decide to ask such things? And secondly, I cannot say with certainty that this is a hoax. If I go to such sites, who am I kidding? Well, maybe my wife, because I don't tell her about my "hobby". And they won't be able to deceive me, because I see in reality a girl in front of the camera, who caresses her breasts and all that.