Is this weird or wrong?

Is it wrong for a 13 year old girl to read books like 50 Shades of Grey? I’ve only read like 100 pages of 50 shades or something but I stopped reading it because I simply felt guilty anddd people keep talking shit about it and making fun of it..

But what do you think? Do you think it’s bad for me to read that or related books?
I’m just trying to explore my sexuality and since I can’t watch p0rn yet I just read books and it’s really cool. I believe those books could even save me in the future from losing my virginity xD
Anyways I might be 13 (14 in 2 weeks) but I would say I’m pretty sexually mature, I mean I can handle graphic explanations more than most people my age, and I’m pretty sure I’m the only 13 year old girl on this earth that has dirty talked with people online about kinky stuff O.o, so does that count or what?.. I’m confused

Category: Sexuality asked December 10, 2014

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Uni

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50 shades of Grey is just a book and it is okay because many books use sexuality to show a bigger picture so it is not actually a sexual book. You should wait until the right age because this stuff might overwhelm you at this age. If you watch porn at this age, you will become addicted to it. Many guys over the internet try to find young girls. I'm pretty sure your not the only that talked about that online. Don't get close to guys that talk about that stuff because they might want to take away your virginity. There are many creepy guys out there be very careful! And happy early birthday!! Hope I helped. :)

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Pain Whisperer

Trust me you are not weird! I'm 15 and when I was your age I'd read A LOT of things probably worse than 50 Shades. I'd also say I was mature enough to handle it so I guess it all depends on how you feel about the subjects written about in the book. Some people are horrified, even at an older age and some people like it, even at a young age. I think it's good that you're exploring your sexuality, I did that a lot as well and now I'm completely comfortable with what I am, I believe it really does help to explore in these ways, it helps you figure out what you like and what you don't like.

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Elizabeth72

No, youre not the only one. No, its not really weird. Although, i do kinda think you should wait to lose your virginity to someone you really like, even if i dont think about virginity as some sort of precious thing that sgould be protected for as long as possible. Losinh your virginity, or even having sex when youre young, with someone you dont like or love well.. you might regret it. It might haunt you forever. So be careful about it. At least thats what i think

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Blueberry

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I definitely don't think this is wrong. If anything, it's good for you to read things that explore sexuality and other mature topics- it allows you to gather your thoughts around the topic. Just be sure that when you read something, especially something of the nature of 50 shades of grey, that you understand the boundaries of what is a healthy and what is not. Sometime's it's hard to see that line, but as you mature and get older you will be able to find it a little more easily.

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LittleMissKiss

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Okay first of all NOBODY should read 50 Shades, it centers around an abusive relationship and nobody, especially a 13-year-old girl that's just finding her sexuality, should be reading that kind of thing. The practices described in the book in question are manipulative, abusive, and not anywhere actually NEAR real BDSM. I say it's okay for you to read books with safe, healthy (sexual) relationships however I am unable to recommend any at this time. Just please don't read 50 Shades, it's a crappy book.

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tipsyGnostalgic

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